A coming together of these 4 aspects of self-development will create a profound change in our self-esteem and therefore our value. The more we development these the more we are able to give to others, show up as our most powerful selves, be the go to person and ultimately increase the value others see in us.

Which of these 4 are you the most developed? Which are you lacking? How will you change that?

Have you ever thought to yourself, “Well, what’s the point in saying anything? They never listen to me anyway.”

Have you ever said, “You know we don’t talk about this subject in front of ___.”

Have ever held your tongue to protect the peace around you, all the while destroying the peace within you?

Yea, me too. In fact, it’s been the downfall of many of my relationships — personal, business and the most important relationship — the one with myself.

As an entrepreneur who strives to run healthy businesses and be I constant growth of myself, I have found it difficult to develop friendships that are based on more than conversations that include — how much you hate your job, how your kids are crazy, and how your spouse makes the best spaghetti on pasta night. Maybe that makes me sound pretentious but, dammit I desire deeper level conversations and accountability from my friendships.